Does anyone have tips for keep my eye lids open so I can put in my contact lenses?

Before you try putting on the right lens again, wash your hands and then repeatedly touch the whites of your right eye with your fingertips until you can do it easily. Dry your hands when you hold your eyelids open and press the upper lid lashes against the eyebrow and don't let go. If you do let go then stop, blink and start again.